Sometimes, there are things that we wanted to control that can be controlled. And there are others things that aren't meant to be controlled, but we tend to control and overdo it. What a person must do is to control only the things that is within our control. This is one of the powerful lessons that I had learned from The Daily Stoic, that book was recommended by a friend and it is indeed life changing. If it wasn't for that book, I wouldn't have gained the clarity and equilibrium that I am seeking.

Life is indeed messy honestly, but only if we learned to change what we can and to let go of things that we can't control is the way in seeking happiness and freedom. Time, is one of the important asset that every living person has. Instead of me wasting time to complain on things I can't control. I am learning to live to fully let go and reflect that time and energy into my self to change for the better.